There are moments when we need to admit that people are sometimes unpredictable and dating them is hard, not to mention dangerous. As it happens in many cases, dating someone who initially seemed like the nicest person ever ends up in a disaster, to say the least. This goes for both men and women, and chances are the we have all either been part of a story where a seemingly nice person turns out to be the opposite, or this happened to someone we know. The list below shares a lot of relevant examples, and they could probably serve as a warning about what not to do or allow and to be able to recognize the red flag when you see it. All of these nice girls turned out to be the exact opposite.
1. The alpha male
The dating world is full of surprises, but we guess that this person did not post something surprising. She shared the exact thing many other people would, and she was not shy about it, either.
2. The girl boss
Now, this is the kind of thing that many people would be baffled to see, and for obvious reasons. Imagine having someone sit in front of you on a first date and tell you all these things. We guess this girl boss does not have a successful love life.
3. The post
Here is a post that seems to be very odd and confusing. It seems that some individuals are way too complicated when it comes to dating and it shows. This person expected the man to fight for her, and it did not work as planned, neither did it should.
4. The date
Here is how some people end up doing something that could simply be qualified as a huge no-no. Imagine how relieved the man really was for not giving this person a chance. She even said that she expected him to try to earn the right to be with her.
5. The convo
Some people have a weird understating of how things in the dating world should work, and this is a short conversation that shows how that happens. This person wanted someone to tell the boy she liked to break up with his girl. She even thought she was nicer.
6. The boyfriend
There are moments when people think their spouses or partners need to pay for everything, and this post tells us that some people insist on that. There is no doubt that a couple should always share their expenses and not expect the other person to pay.
7. The chat
We cannot believe that this happened for real. The thing you see here is a genuine chat, or at least it looks like that to us. The reasons why this person wanted a refund are absurd. She must be very insecure and she even thought there was a code.
8. The long string of posts
Some people never take no for an answer, and they usually feel rejected beyond any rational levels. This was probably the reason why this person decided to send a long string of angry texts that were totally unnecessary. We don’t like such behavior.
9. The red flags
Now, this is one impressive list, at least in terms of quantity. The thing about it is that it contains a lot of whopping red flags that we think are just plain weird. There are moments when we question the preferences of people out there.
10. The guys
People out there are sometimes not that fond of being polite or nice, so they feel comfortable with postings things like this. We guess that there are numerous moments when certain people need to think twice before posting.
11. The weird post
We are not sure how we feel about this post, and we can definitely say that certain individuals can have a weird vision when it comes to particular situations, and this is one fine example of what we mean.
12. The messages
Now, this is what we call a complicated situation. We believe that some people would always behave in a posh manner, no matter the situation. We understand that this was a situation that the responder never expected to happen or to escalate.
13. The question
Here is how some individuals are probably in a position they do not realize at all, and we guess that this particular case is obvious to everyone who sees it. It is true that this is nothing but jealousy and it is anything but a healthy behavior.
14. The date
Some girls try to act nice at first, and they reveal their true selves soon after that. This girl, however, did not bother to play roles and went straight to the point. We believe she was probably determined to find the provider she dreamed of.
15. The girl
We are certain that this person was probably thinking about something in particular when posting this. There is no wonder in the fact that some people give advice only based on their own experience or personality.
16. The phone
Some people can justify almost anything when it comes to relationships if they are determined to prove a point. In this case, we are talking about the violation of one’s privacy. It seems that some people would believe in posts like this one.
17. The difference
We know that many people out there would be glad to have the kind of partner who they are sure will never cheat on them. Trying to justify such an opinion is something that we would never accept, as it is the worst kind of double standard.
18. The broken hearts
Now, this is the kind of thing that seems unfair to discuss or claim, not to mention that it is just not true. Trying to come up with things like that would shame men and their feelings is something would never be acceptable for us, period.
19. The tweet
Here is yet another something that is surely the kind of thing that nobody would approve, maybe except the few people who commented below it. What this person needs to do is stop trying to justify such vile things and brag about them.
20. The attempt
We know that many people are shallow and they have specific requirements and preferences when it comes to dating and partners, but it is one thing to be like that and a completely different story when you try to shame other people.
21. The conversation
When you talk or chat to someone new, you must be polite and try not to sound intimidating when you ask the other person this or that. It appears that this person thought she was polite, but this is not our idea of politeness.
22. The nice girl
We are surprised by the fact that many people think that they are nice, but they are anything but nice. As you can see, some individuals are not nearly as nice as they think, and this one is the perfect example we can use to show what we mean.
23. The person
Some people are a real riddle and they are usually hard to be figured out by strangers who try to date them and possibly form a bond. It is true that this girl was not exactly rude, but things took a really weird turn at one point.
24. The photos
Some individuals try to generalize and make assumptions about people they have never met, based on something in particular. As you can see, the conclusion this person made might be correct in some cases, but it is not valid for everyone.
25. The post
We guess that the problem with such posts and statements is obvious. People are usually capable of having a clear judgement of their own character, but we know that this is often so blurred that it is simply not true.
26. The texts
Now, this is one very serious misunderstanding, and we can all see that being nice is surely not the kind of thing that could be related to wise people or fools. Being nice is something everyone would be able to feel and see.
27. The dudes
While this is sometimes true, we guess that the tone this person used to share it with the world seems to be a bit too much to be considered nice at all.
28. What a catch
Well, she tells it in her resume. She will probably stay single and she really doesn’t care.