In this discussion women on Reddit are letting us know what instantly makes a guy unattractive. In the following article we will discuss and give advice on all the things that we believe should make it into the article. These things are really important if you would like to make new friends or have a date. When making friends or dating, the first impression is really important, that’s why it’s a good idea to read the article and take a note. If you would like to read more tips like that you can read the whole discussion on Reddit.
1. Talking about his ex all the time
If you talk about your ex all the time it means that you still have feelings. It is definitely a red flag and will give bad impression if you talk about your ex all the time.
2. Uncontrolled anger
Not being able to control your anger is definitely a red flag. If you have such problems maybe you need to see a professional and get help.
3. Controlling personality
Some people want to control the ones they are in relationship with. This is not good idea, because every human being on the planet had the right to express him/herself and to do things that he/she loves.
4. ‘No’ is definitely an answer
Some guys just don’t take ‘no’ for an answer. Taking ‘no’ for an answer is actually a good idea. That’s why if a girl says no, there is no point of asking again and again and again.
5. Being always right
When you are not right, you just have to admit it and take a note. Being a guy who always wants to be right, even if you are not is not that good idea.
6. Having a kid
When you have a kid everybody needs to take responsibility. Nobody really like people who ditched.
7. Bad mouthing
Talking impolite things for someone who is not that attractive to you is definitely a red flag. Remember that it’s a matter of taste. The guy/girl who is not that attractive to you may be really attractive to somebody else. The advice here is just not to say anything.
8. False alfa male
Talking too much about yourself is not really such a good idea. Nobody likes when have to listen stories that are not interesting. When talking, there should always be e balance.
9. Guys who are still dependent on their moms
Depending on your parents when you are in the early 40s is definitely a red flag. If you are over 25 and still live with your parents, maybe it is a good idea to try moving out.
10. Being immature
Being old enough and acting as a teenager is definitely not a good sign. It means that one is still immature.
11. No respect
Remember to always treat your children with respect. As stated above there is a huge difference between laughing with your children and laughing at your children.
12. The irony
Talking about yourself with irony is not a good sign. You need to be confident, but not too much.
13. Personal hygiene
Smelling fresh is always a good sign and definitely matters. Remember that the first impression is very important, that’s why make sure you always take a shower before going out.
14. Being pretentious
You can be pretentious, but not too much, because it will leave a bad impression on the first date.
15. Anger issues
We have to control our anger all the time. Being too angry in a relationship or in general is definitely is not a good sign.
16. Getting a coffee
There is not too much in having a coffee with a girl. Just make sure you act normal and talk to her like a regular human being.
17. Being arrogant
Being arrogant is definitely a red flag. One should behave accordingly in order to leave a good impression
It’s really common for the lazy people to deny accepting that they are lazy. Just try to do something all the time and get a hobby.
19. Bad breath
Having a good breath will always take you a step further, especially if you are will to kiss on the first date. People with bad breath are instant turn off.
20. Showing off
Showing off all the time may be a little offensive. If you want to show off about something you can just mention it in a conversation, do not talk about it all the time.
Spitting while walking on the street is a really bad sign. It’s means that the person is really bad mannered.
22. Long nails
Remember to clean and cut your nails regularly. It is a really good sign. It means that you are hygienic.
23. Being rude to the waitress
Being rude to somebody who is serving you is not that good of an idea. It will definitely raise a red flag, because it means that if you are rude to people you don’t actually know you are as well rude to the people who are closer to you.
24. Throwing trash on the ground
Throwing trash on the ground is really a bad sign. Make sure you use the trash can.
25. Not being a gentleman
If you want to impress a girl remember to act like a real gentleman. For example, you can always open the door for her or help her with the jacket.
26. Demanding a woman give up her life
You have to respect one’s life and desires. Demanding giving up her life is really something you should never do.
27. Quick to anger
Nobody really likes nervous guys and people who get angry easily, so just try to be calm in general.
28. Being manipulative
Nobody really like manipulative people. Manipulative people don’t really think about others. They want to benefit themselves most of the time.
29. Trying to be cool
Trying to be cool in front of people is not a good idea at all. Just act normal and everything will be more than fine.
20. Bad teeth
Having a bad teeth means that you have a questionable hygiene. Make sure you brush your teeth and go to dentist regularly. Having a nice white teeth is always a good thing.
31. Hot guys
Being hot is something really good, but remember that you don’t have to brag about it on social media all the time. Most girls like people who are self-confident and don’t really rely on looks.
32. Being obsessed with being ‘a man’
Being obsessed with being ‘a man’ is definitely a red flag. Remember that real men cook, clean and do laundry as well.
33. Bad hygiene, anger issues, laziness and so on
Those same things are valid for boys and girls. We have already discussed the anger and hygiene issues. Dependence on other to get things done is definitely a red flag as well.