Dating is a topic that could be discussed for months, and new things could still be added to it. No two people have exactly the same dating experiences, although there are plenty of similar stories and tons of relatable things you could say about dating life. People out there love to share such things, and their own personal stories become the things people need either to learn from or to take notes about what they should be aware of. The following list shares what happened to 35 women who decided to give the nice guys that were interested in them a chance. Most of these answers are surprising, to say the least, and others are just unbelievable. You can read the whole discussion on Reddit.
1. The stuff
Imagine giving someone a chance to be your partner in life, only to end up having nothing because that same person burned everything you have. This is an utterly bizarre story that was probably a nightmare when it happened.
2. The surprise
Here is how one person decided to show their true colors soon after they pretended to be the nice guy.
3. The dorm
Some relationships start with the weirdest thing, but some end with a similar thing as soon as it started. As you can see, this supposedly nice guy was ready to invade the life and dorm room of a girl he spent four days with.
4. The week
Wow, it seems that this person really had the whole package of weird and dangerous things coming from the same person. It seems that not all nice guys are actually nice, and they pretend to be like to have their way.
5. The way to go
Now, this is something that nobody should tolerate, not even for a second, and keeping such a form of abuse all to yourself is not a good idea. If you have a similar experience, then you should notify whoever you need to.
6. The friend
Here is now one person was able to see for himself that giving a nice guy a chance is not always a good idea. He was able to witness how a friend’s marriage began falling apart soon after it started.
7. The chat
There are moments when we need to admit that nobody should be referred to a nice guy for the simple reason of being nice once during a conversation. As you can see, this situation could have been a lot more serious.
8. The religion
Here is how some people you meet and think that they have nothing but good intentions for you can become your biggest nightmare. It seems that some people will do anything to have things their way.
9. The situation
It seems that many people out there were very close to ending up in a place they would never want to be, and this person had a taste of how that felt. It is a stroke of luck that she got away from this one.
10. The friend
Wow, this sounds like it was a really scary episode for the girl, and we believe that such moments have happened thousands of times before. We are glad she was okay, and she got what he deserved.
11. The decade
We guess that some people out there would never accept “no” as an answer, and it seems that, in their head, they would always have a chance, even when they are rejected numerous times. This type of people are the worst.
12. The manipulator
There are many people out there who will never rest until they completely destroy your life simply because they either want you all for themselves or they did not handle you rejecting them at all. This post shows how that feels.
13. The day
It seems that many people out there who have been through a similar relationship know that there are only a few words more things than the situation described here. As they say, it could always get worse, but not much worse.
14. The lunch
We guess that some people really think the person they date is not smart enough to realize that they wanted to manipulate them using a cheap trick. In this case, it did not work as planned, and no wonder about that.
15. The advice
We guess that there are a lot of toxic people out there who would never hesitate to make you feel bad while they do a bunch of things behind your back. There is no telling how many people out there have been through this.
16. The fellow
It is true that some people literally avoid bad people in their life, but this person not only did not avoid such a person but had a whole series of events that lead to the result that would shock most people.
17. The ex
Being nice is never an excuse to do something inappropriate, and this is the kind of thing that is a huge no-no. Trying to do something behind the back of the person you claim you want to be with is anything but nice.
18. The house
Here is a post that actually tells a story, and it also serves as an indication for something that we should accept as a general rule. Those who are self-proclaimed as “nice guys” are most often the exact opposite.
19. The man child
There are people out there who would always be stuck in a place they don’t want to be, and that place can sometimes be a stage in their lives that they never got past. This is what happened there, obviously.
20. The situation
Some people out there have calculated their strategy in advance. When they decide to do whatever they wanted, they are willing to do all it takes if they get caught in the act. As you can see, some nice guys take it to the extreme.
21. The chance
Wow, this is one incredible post that reveals just how scary dating can be, and it seems that allowing some people close to you would sometimes backfire massively. As you can see, this person got into a lot of trouble for doing it.
22. The dude
It appears that most of the people out there who claim to be nice guys actually have a lot of personal issues that would ultimately lead to unpleasant situations. This person shared her story and we need to say it sounds like a nightmare.
23. The number
Well, finally, this is a nice story about a nice guy, and we guess that it shows that not all the nice guys out there are the opposite of being nice. We are so happy that this person was lucky enough to find a nice man for real and have a happy life.
24. The guilt
Here is a situation that is worthy of being featured in a movie. There are people who would probably never believe this story, but we are sure that all the moments this woman lived through were unpleasant, to say the least.
25. The criticism
Some people may appear to be nice at first, but they reveal their true selves soon enough, which happened here. It seems that some people are so toxic that they are willing to do anything to have someone whose life they need to ruin.
26. The mental health
Wow, imagine how angry some people may be under a certain type of pressure, and this post really made us think about the true side of the people we know. There are no words to describe this type of behavior.
27. The middle school
Imagine being stuck with a person who is capable of doing the things this person did. It seems that some people are really dark on the inside and their thoughts are worthy of a horror movie scenario.
28. The stalker
Here is yet another person who was able to fall for the nice guy thing and give him a chance, but regretted it. The supposed nice guy threatened the girl, which should be punished by law, we guess.
29. The change
Here is yet another post revealing a classic scenario. Some people are actually not aware of their partner’s true intentions until things get serious.
30. The manipulations
We understand that some people have different motives and reasons to be in a relationship, but there are people who just seem to do it to hurt others.
31. The run
Here is the best piece of advice in case you hear these self-qualifications. You need to make a run for it as soon as you hear these words.
32. The grooming
We understand that some people cannot escape their abusive relationship that easily, but they need to walk away as soon as they can.
33. The college
This is another story revealing that, more often than not, nice guys actually have a dark side and become stalkers instead of becoming even nicer.
34. The dating
This person decided to share a story that began with six nice weeks and continued with nine years of bad experiences.