We know that people out there have different ideas about what the perfect dating life would look like. For all we know, it is different for every individual and it is based on their preferences, timing, and other unpredictable things. Still, most of us can agree on simple things, such as the red flags we should all avoid. Of course, they are nothing but “green flags” to certain individuals, and this is why the list below exists. You can read the whole discussion on Reddit.
1. The date
This is something we could agree with under certain circumstances, but we guess it all depends on the particular situation.
2. The dating
This is something that we can support, we guess. The fact one is bad at dating does not mean one is just as bad as a person.
3. The goals
Discussing these things does not mean people are showing the desire to have them all with their dates. Knowing these things is sometimes an advantage.
4. The situation
There are situations in which oversharing is not a big deal and can even be considered an ice breaker, if you’d like. There are moments when people need to let out some steam.
5. The issues
Sharing information such as the one mentioned here could be considered as a sign of honesty. Most people would appreciate that.
6. The creepy thing
We guess that we live in a world where people are overwhelmed by social media, and we know that staying away from it all is a good thing.
7. The emotions
We guess that it is all a matter of a good match when it comes to dating. As you can see, this person likes expressive people.
8. The social media apps
The people who are constantly on the phone are probably not the ones you should want to spend time with, as you would be lonely.
9. The things
There is no telling just how many people have been in this situation. It is not a bad one to be in, too, and you can see why.
10. The openness
This would be a huge red flag to most people, but it seems that this user actually likes such a behavior. We think that it is not the best thing we could imagine.
11. The weirdness
Some people are weirdos, but that is sometimes a good thing, as it all depends on the other person. Date night would be exciting when weird for some.
12. The replies
The best thing about having someone who replies fast is the fact they reply with what they mean, instead of compiling something.
13. The friends
In today’s world, there are people who brag about not having many friends, and this is a good thing, actually. This user thinks the same, we guess.
14. The relationships
Some people try to hide this fact, but we guess that there is nothing wrong with having such a relationship if everything ended with no hard feelings.
15. The mother
We guess the keyword here is “healthy”. Some people ruin all their relationships because they were influenced by their mothers, so you should be careful with this one.
16. The feelings
This is yet another post that suggests something most of us consider a huge red flag. When we think about it, it makes a bit of sense.
17. The awkward person
Acting weird can be a good thing, as we all know that some people tend to be shy toward the ones they like a lot.
18. The wait
Instead of waiting for the right moment, some people tell their dates exactly how they feel about them. This might not be right, but it could be a good thing, too.
19. The interest
Well, we have no way of not agreeing with this. Simply put, some people waste a lot of valuable time trying to wait for the right moment, when they should simply act immediately.
20. The rule
This is a post that completely supports the previous one. It appears that there are no such rules. If you are interested in someone, tell them.
21. The position
We know that these are not the things one should share on their first date, but, then again, letting your date know your views is nice.
22. The marriage
Well, even if it seems kind of inappropriate at first, it all comes down to these things in case the two people dating like each other.
23. The person
We guess that almost nobody would agree with this position, and we can see why. Such people are usually not those to have close by.
24. The stuff
Here is yet another person who wants to leave the small talk behind and get straight to the point, and we can admit it makes sense.
25. The kids
If you go on a date, chances are that you would probably consider having a future with the person you meet, so you might as well talk about it.
26. The green flag
It appears that this person is more into justifying the kind of behavior we don’t like, but it all comes down to one’s own preferences.
27. The life
We think that people who are obsessed with their own selves and who talk about what they want or plan to do are not the best kind of people.
28. The friends
This is something we fully support, and we guess that it is a sign of maturity you would probably be okay with.
29. The struggle
Since most people today struggle with such a condition, there is no doubt that talking about it as early as possible is important.
30. The approach
Some men would be intimidated by this, but we all know that in today’s modern world, this would be a good thing, probably.
31. The cats
This is never a bad thing, and we guess that if someone is a cat lover, there is a good chance they are a good person altogether.
32. The animals
This is something that some individuals consider to be infantile, but we also think that it is cute above everything else.
33. The relationships
This is always something that should be considered a red or a green flag depending on context, as it is not universally bad or a good thing.
34. The jealous person
This is one of the things that some people need, but up to a certain amount. Again, it is a matter of particular circumstances.
35. The living
There are moments when people could and should think about this, and even talk about it, despite it might be too soon for some.